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mchicken is dejected.
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| lizakova wrote: | | lugo wrote: | Update:
Just broke up with that girl. We've been dating for three months and she got pissed off because I didn't want to drive four hours and pay $30 plus gas to see her do a forty-five second kung fu form at a tournament in Orlando when I could instead go to my best friend's bachelorette party.
Basically I said she shouldn't try and force me into a huge relationship with all of its attendant obligations and I didn't feel as bad as she wanted me to because I suspected I wasn't as invested in "us" as she wanted me to be.
So she dumped me.
I'm not upset, but I feel like I should be. Oh well. |
You seem somewhat jaded, my friend. |
More like he sounds reasoned and principled. Or lazy and he likes strippers. |
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lugo is unable to remember his password.
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| Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 10:44 pm Post subject: |
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To give a more balanced view of the situation, I did agree to go to her kung fu thing first. That's because she asked me, like, a week after we started dating before I even knew the party was even planned, and my agreement was rather noncommittal (to my silly male mind, at least).
Also, I've liked every stripper I've known which has been one. We get along because she's a shaman. The pseudo native american kind, not the troll. |
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epb
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| mchicken wrote: | | lizakova wrote: | | lugo wrote: | Update:
Just broke up with that girl. We've been dating for three months and she got pissed off because I didn't want to drive four hours and pay $30 plus gas to see her do a forty-five second kung fu form at a tournament in Orlando when I could instead go to my best friend's bachelorette party.
Basically I said she shouldn't try and force me into a huge relationship with all of its attendant obligations and I didn't feel as bad as she wanted me to because I suspected I wasn't as invested in "us" as she wanted me to be.
So she dumped me.
I'm not upset, but I feel like I should be. Oh well. |
You seem somewhat jaded, my friend. |
More like he sounds reasoned and principled. Or lazy and he likes strippers. |
Either way, just from the description(s) it looks like they weren't really on the same page so it's probably for the better.
Also, wait -- aren't bachelorette parties customarily only for the (pre)bride and other females? I guess that could work for picking up chicks... |
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mchicken is dejected.
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As a Native American who has attended sun dances and lived on a reservation and visited Wounded Knee, that makes me sick, unless she's actually Native American.
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mchicken is dejected.
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| Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject: |
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| epb wrote: | | mchicken wrote: | | lizakova wrote: | | lugo wrote: | Update:
Just broke up with that girl. We've been dating for three months and she got pissed off because I didn't want to drive four hours and pay $30 plus gas to see her do a forty-five second kung fu form at a tournament in Orlando when I could instead go to my best friend's bachelorette party.
Basically I said she shouldn't try and force me into a huge relationship with all of its attendant obligations and I didn't feel as bad as she wanted me to because I suspected I wasn't as invested in "us" as she wanted me to be.
So she dumped me.
I'm not upset, but I feel like I should be. Oh well. |
You seem somewhat jaded, my friend. |
More like he sounds reasoned and principled. Or lazy and he likes strippers. |
Either way, just from the description(s) it looks like they weren't really on the same page so it's probably for the better.
Also, wait -- aren't bachelorette parties customarily only for the (pre)bride and other females? I guess that could work for picking up chicks... |
Yeah for some reason I misread that and thought he said bachelor party, hence the stripper reference. Does that mean he was watching a male stripper with a bunch of women? Isn't that weird and nasty? |
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jaster is back in black
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| Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 11:22 pm Post subject: |
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| mchicken wrote: | | Yeah for some reason I misread that and thought he said bachelor party, hence the stripper reference. Does that mean he was watching a male stripper with a bunch of women? Isn't that weird and nasty? |
Wicca?
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When I am weaker than you, I ask you for freedom because that is according to your principles; when I am stronger than you, I take away your freedom because that is according to my principles.
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estick is Eraser-mad.
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| Are Wiccans known for their male strippers? I guess they are. |
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lugo is unable to remember his password.
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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| mchicken wrote: | | Yeah for some reason I misread that and thought he said bachelor party, hence the stripper reference. Does that mean he was watching a male stripper with a bunch of women? Isn't that weird and nasty? |
It would be.
However, for some reason, these women aren't having a stripper.
I offered to do it, but for some reason I can't fathom they were opposed to the idea. |
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jaster is back in black
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You should have done it anyways.
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lugo is unable to remember his password.
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah, it happens this Saturday. |
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